| It's ridiculous, isn't it? | | | | wants money, possessions, fame, and physical |
| Selfish Capitalism doesn't work. | | | | attractiveness per se. What we really, really want |
| Surely we don't need any more evidence that | | | | is the one thing that we believe those things - if |
| what Thatcher and Reagan started, hasn't | | | | we had them - would give us: FEEL GOOD. All any |
| worked. | | | | one of us wants is to feel good. If you woke up |
| And if you want the actual hard evidence, then | | | | every morning feeling really good about life, about |
| the fact is that upward mobility is a myth, oh, | | | | your job, about your relationships, your family, |
| except that the very rich have got richer. But | | | | then your interest in (loadsa) money, per se, |
| then they would, wouldn't they, because they're | | | | would probably disappear. Yes, you'd still need to |
| the ones that designed the system in the first | | | | put food on the table, but you would be |
| place. | | | | enlightened enough to know that it was your |
| What system is that? I hear you cry. Why, the | | | | emotional and physical health that mattered more |
| one that we're all now going to pay for - | | | | than anything else. |
| massively! | | | | We believe, erroneously that these material |
| Trouble is, the political hypnotists have been hard | | | | things, and abstract things like fame or relative |
| at work and they've done a brilliant job. But then, | | | | good looks (fame is not real, not tangible, it's |
| it's relatively easy to stimulate greed! Especially if | | | | merely a perception that not everyone agrees on |
| you also control the media and ram this stuff | | | | anyway - how many times have you not |
| down our throats morning noon and night. I'm not | | | | recognized the 'famous' Big Brother Celebrity?) will |
| having a go (yes I am), but it's human nature, isn't | | | | bring us happiness when we get them. But that's |
| it, to be drawn to the promise of wealth. | | | | the other problem, isn't it. 'When' we get them, is |
| Well, we've had enough. AND, more to the point, | | | | always in the future, stealing from us the ability to |
| we've given more than enough: Longer hours at | | | | enjoy life in the 'now'. You know what we say, |
| work, many more workaholics, mental illness, and | | | | 'when I qualify, when I get the new car, house, |
| in fact double the rates of depression, anxiety | | | | job, etc. then things will be great.' And that's just |
| and chronic psychological problems compared with | | | | not how it works! |
| the rest of Europe (the non English-speaking bit). | | | | I really want to show people how there is a |
| And if you try to tell me you never feel stressed | | | | better way. I've been very lucky in my life. Selfish |
| out ... | | | | Capitalist values were never thrust upon me, |
| And what for? The credit crunch. Brilliant! Amazing! | | | | either from my parents or from outside. I was |
| What amazing genius designed this one? But we | | | | lucky in that I always knew from a very early |
| all bought into it. | | | | age what I wanted to do, had sufficient (not |
| So, what's the solution? | | | | great) skill to know that I could do it, and |
| We must change our values, otherwise there is | | | | sufficient self-belief to know that it was down to |
| no escape. | | | | me and no one else. Then I simply 'did my own |
| Although, in one sense our values are not wrong, | | | | thing'. |
| they just have the wrong strategies attached. | | | | But anyone can do their own thing. It's never too |
| Especially that one that says, 'if I make lots of | | | | late - truly. And, as long as your own thing is |
| money, then I'll be happy'. | | | | really what you want, what you're passionate |
| When we dig deep inside, and we are completely | | | | about, are prepared to work at - whilst at the |
| honest, of course we know that money can't | | | | same time not stressing yourself out about the |
| make anyone happy, but we still buy into the | | | | progress you're not making, 'cos all things take |
| notion, because it's all around us; it looks attractive | | | | time - then waking up every morning, feeling |
| (maybe not quite as much now, though). The | | | | good about yourself and about the world and the |
| media gives us images 24/7 of rich people being | | | | people around you is a very real possibility. |
| attractive role models, whose lifestyles we then | | | | My life is devoted to showing people how to |
| aspire to. | | | | believe in themselves and to go for what they |
| The trouble is, no one is showing us clearly just | | | | want. My conviction is that we can all do much |
| how the authentic alternative might work - and | | | | better, in terms of how we feel about ourselves. |
| achieve the things we really want: emotional | | | | And every day I have made it my commitment |
| health and stability, financial stability (as opposed | | | | to continue learning about the best ways to do |
| to 'economic growth', the kind that's produced all | | | | that. If you will allow me, I would be honoured to |
| of these problems), general well-being, and dare I | | | | share some of those insights with you. |
| say: happiness, fulfillment and a real sense of | | | | Thank you for reading this. |
| contribution in this world of ours. | | | | Q J |
| True happiness is a feeling of being at one with | | | | "Don't make your decisions with wisdom, make |
| ourselves and with the world. None of us really | | | | them with passion," Ave, Navajo Indian, 2006. |